The recent shooting has evoked many emotions—sadness, grief, helplessness, anxiety, and anger.
Children who are struggling with their thoughts and feelings about the stories and images of the
shooting may turn to trusted adults for help and guidance.

  • Start the conversation. Talk about the shooting with your child. Not talking about it can make
    the event even more threatening in your child’s mind. Silence suggests that what has
    occurred is too horrible even to speak about or that you do not know what has happened.
    With social media (e.g., Facebook, Twitter, text messages, newsbreaks on favorite radio and
    TV stations, and others), it is highly unlikely that children and teenagers have not heard
    about this. Chances are your child has heard about it, too.
  • What does your child already know? Start by asking what your child/teen already has heard
    about the events from the media and from friends. Listen carefully; try to figure out what he
    or she knows or believes. As your child explains, listen for misinformation, misconceptions,
    and underlying fears or concerns. Understand that this information will change as more facts
    about the shooting are known.
  • Gently correct inaccurate information. If your child/teen has inaccurate information or
    misconceptions, take time to provide the correct information in simple, clear, ageappropriate language.
  • Encourage your child to ask questions, and answer those questions directly. Your child/teen may have some difficult questions about the incident. For example, she may ask if it is possible that it could happen at your workplace; she is probably really asking whether it is “likely.” The concern about re-occurrence will be an issue for caregivers and children/teens alike. While it is important to discuss the likelihood of this risk, she is also asking if she is safe. This may be a time to review plans your family has for keeping safe in the event of any crisis situation. Do give any information you have on the help and support the victims and their families are receiving. Like adults, children/teens are better able to cope with a difficult situation when they have the facts about it. Having question-and-answer talks gives your child ongoing support as he or she begins to cope with the range of emotions stirred up by this tragedy.

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